I tried a 24-hour dopamine detox...

The uncomfortable truth about reclaiming your focus - Part 2/3

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Hey there,

Remember that 60-second experiment I suggested in my last email?

I took it ten steps further. During this weekend, I decided to try something radical: a 24-hour dopamine reset.

No phone. No social media. No Netflix. No quick-fix dopamine hits.

The first three hours were surprisingly... disturbing.

I found myself reaching for my phone 47 times. For nothing. Just reaching, like a phantom limb. Each time, my brain was desperately seeking its familiar hit of dopamine.

By the fifth hour, something interesting started happening...

The Dopamine Audit

Before we dive into what happened next, let's talk about something crucial: identifying your personal dopamine triggers. They're not all created equal, and everyone's trap is different.

Here's how to map yours:

The Morning Test:

Track your first five actions after waking up. Mine were:

  • Check phone notifications (dopamine trigger)

  • Scroll news (dopamine trigger)

  • Check email (dopamine trigger)

  • Make coffee (natural reward)

  • Open work chat (dopamine trigger)

Notice a pattern? 4 out of 5 were artificial dopamine triggers.

The Urgency Illusion

Have you ever noticed how everything feels urgent when you're procrastinating? That's your dopamine system playing tricks.

Here's what's actually happening:

High-Dopamine Activities (quick hits):

  • Checking messages

  • Refreshing social media

  • YouTube shorts

  • Quick wins at work

  • Online shopping

Low-Dopamine Activities (delayed reward):

  • Deep work

  • Reading books

  • Exercise

  • Learning new skills

  • Real conversations

Your brain will always make the high-dopamine activities feel more urgent. Always.

The Three Dopamine Traps

You know what's funny? I keep catching myself in the same three attention traps. Maybe you'll recognize them too:

  1. The Infinity Pool Trap

  • Endless scroll features

  • Auto-play functions

  • "For you" pages that learn your triggers

  • Solution: Set hard stops. Use app timers.

  1. The Quick-Fix Loop

  • Checking email for dopamine, not information

  • Snacking when bored, not hungry

  • Shopping for the thrill, not the item

  • Solution: Create friction. Add 10-minute delays to impulsive actions.

  1. The Digital Slot Machine

  • Refreshing feeds

  • Pulling to reload

  • Checking for likes

  • Solution: Batch check at set times only.

What My Dopamine Reset Revealed

Back to my 24-hour experiment...

By hour five, something shifted. Colors seemed brighter. My coffee tasted better. A simple walk felt surprisingly satisfying.

By hour twelve, I noticed:

  • Increased ability to focus

  • Better conversation quality

  • More enjoyment from simple activities

  • Decreased anxiety

  • Better sleep quality

But here's the key insight… The goal isn't to eliminate dopamine triggers. It's to reclaim control over them.

Warning Signs You're Stuck in a Dopamine Loop

  • The Content Cascade

    Opening YouTube for something specific > Two hours later: watching "Top 10 Pizza Mistakes > Feeling drained but unable to stop

  • The Focus Fade

    • Decreasing attention span

    • Inability to read long articles

    • Constant task-switching

  • The Pleasure Paradox

    • Needing more stimulation for the same satisfaction

    • Finding previously enjoyable activities "boring"

    • Constant background restlessness

First Steps to Breaking Free

While we'll dive deep into the complete solution in Part 3, here are three immediate actions you can take:

  1. The 10-Minute Rule: Before any dopamine-seeking activity, wait 10 minutes. This breaks the automatic response loop.

  2. Dopamine Scheduling: Batch your high-dopamine activities into specific time blocks. This prevents the all-day dopamine drip.

  3. The Reset Ritual: Create a morning routine that delays first dopamine hit by 30 minutes. This resets your baseline.

What's Coming in Part 3….

In our final email, I'll share:

  • The complete 21-day dopamine reset protocol

  • How to create sustainable dopamine-conscious habits

  • Tools and apps for managing digital stimulation

Until then, try this: Please pick ONE of your top dopamine triggers and apply the 10-minute rule to it tomorrow. Just one trigger, one day.

Here's to reclaiming our attention,

Raihan | Mindful Maven | Self-Care Canvas

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